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Between What Was and What’s Next

Dr. Tiza Pyle has spent decades studying how people move through transition. In recent years, her work has focused on a question many thoughtful adults eventually face: how to approach change later in life not as retreat, but as reinvention.

She has written and spoken about that season, encouraging people to see it not as an ending, but as an opportunity to live more deliberately. When circumstances shift, she looks for what can grow. When one chapter closes, she asks what new possibilities are emerging.

She calls this the in-between stage, the space between a known reality that is changing and a future not yet fully defined. For decades, she has helped organizations and individuals navigate that terrain. Change, she believes, is not an interruption of life. It is life.

What makes her story compelling is not simply that she teaches transformation. It is that she chose to apply it to her own life.

A Life Built on Leadership and Curiosity

Born in Brazil, Tiza earned her degree in educational psychology from Universidade Federal de Minas Gerais before continuing her education in the United States. At Loyola University Chicago, she completed a master’s degree in human resources management and later a PhD in organizational leadership.

Her professional path moved between corporate and advisory roles, including Executive Service Corps of Chicago, Human Synergistics International, Siemens Building Technologies and The Northern Trust. Bank. These were environments where leadership was tested, and change was constant.

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Recently, as she shifted her work from corporations to individuals, she founded Your Path to Success, LLC, guiding people through complex transitions. She was previously the CEO of Pyle Consulting Group, Inc., which she founded in 2001, and is now owned by her son, Robert Pyle. She authored books reflecting the philosophy she refined over decades: Possibilities: Reframing Life in Your Later Years with the B.A.S.E. Model® for Change; Your Journey of Transformation: A Workbook for a New You; Embracing Life’s Challenges: A Story of Change; and Fat Hurts: Your Guide to Personal Transformation after WLS.

At the center of her work is a framework she calls the B.A.S.E. Model for Change which stands for Belief, Awareness, Support and Execution. Change begins by believing it is possible. It grows through awareness. It strengthens with support. And succeeds through action.

These ideas are persuasive in a boardroom and become deeply personal at home.

When the Theory Becomes Personal

Tiza and her husband built a life full of change — moving between countries, industries, and cultures. After her husband’s retirement from academia, they chose to move to the Chicago area to be closer to their daughter. As his health declined, they made another thoughtful decision together: to move into a retirement community that could support them both.

After he passed away and major changes forced her to move from the community where they lived, Tiza opted for a practical next step: renting a small townhouse to give her time to figure out her next steps. “I was unsettled,” she says. “I had lost a great community and knew I needed to find another one! I am a social person. I need to be around people.”

For Tiza, that wasn’t just a preference — it was clarity. Living independently was important to her, but she also knew that being connected to others mattered just as much. A house, no matter how comfortable, didn’t replace daily conversation, shared meals, and familiar faces.

She wasn’t looking to “settle” by lowering her expectations. She was looking to settle into a place where she could build new routines, form new friendships, and feel fully at home.

Choosing Community with Intention

Tiza also wanted to spare her children the burden of future uncertainty. A Life Plan Community offering independent living and a continuum of care gave her reassurance without asking her to give up autonomy. It meant she could live fully now, knowing support would be available if she ever needed it.

After visiting several communities, she found herself drawn to Beacon Hill in Lombard. She liked the people, and the conversations felt genuine. The culture felt participatory rather than prescribed. So when a first-floor apartment with a patio became available, she made the move.

Before doing so, she asked herself a question: Will I still be myself here?

For someone whose life has been shaped by education, leadership, and global experience, that question carried real weight.

Not Retiring, Redirecting

Her life at Beacon Hill offers an answer.

She exercises daily, taking advantage of the many options offered. She serves on the marketing committee. She chairs the resident dining service committee. Twice each month, she convenes a small mastermind group where residents discuss the challenges of change. She continues to coach executive clients as well.

She has not retired from engagement. She has reframed it.

The skills she honed over decades—discernment, leadership, and curiosity—did not disappear. They found new expression.

The Next Chapter Is Still Being Written

“You come here to enrich and enhance your life,” she says.

For Tiza, that has meant meaningful friendships, thoughtful conversation, and continued engagement. It has meant staying active in the work of ideas and contributing rather than stepping aside.

The in-between stage, as she teaches it, is not an empty space. It is a moment of decision. A chance to be clear about what matters and how you want to live.

For those standing at their own threshold and weighing a change, her story offers more than reassurance. It offers evidence that choosing community can be an act of strength and clarity.

Change does not have to signal the end of independence. At its best, it is how independence is expressed and how choice is preserved.

Join Dr. Pyle at Beacon Hill on Thursday, February 26th at 2pm for an honest conversation about her personal journey and how this community continues to support her growth, purpose, and confidence throughout life’s transitions.

RSVP by calling 630-349-2685 or click here to register online.

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